Wondering How People could be so stupid.
When you're dating someone, that doesn't mean they're your world. God should always be your world not some dude or chick. I see my friends dating someone & then all heart broken when the idiot cheats on them, leaves them, or goes & has sex with another girl. Someone who loves you won't do that. Someone who loves you won't try to put there fn hands where they shouldn't be, especially when ya aint married. & that's another thing! Just bc your married, doesn't mean your wife or husband is some kind of toy that you can play with whenever you want. Why don't people get this? & yet the chick will stay w/ the dude even when she knows that he lost his vcard to one of her friends. That would majorly bother me. I wouldn't want to date someone who has already done that stuff. I don't want a chewed piece of gum & I don't see why other people do. Just bc yall are dating doesn't mean you have to agree with everything they say, you are your own person! Stop letting him or her make your decisions for you! & you don't have to spend all your time with them! I wouldn't want to atleast. Maybe, I'm weird. Idk, & Idc. I'm sticking with what I think & I think love should wait until you know what love is. Love isn't sex before you're married, love isn't people that try to keep you away from what you believe in, & those who try to seperate you from God. Love isn't him or her being the only thing you ever pay attention to. Love isn't letting them control you. Love isn't acting whom you supposivly love to send pics or do things of that nature. Love isn't sex. Love is having a lifetime partner. Someone whom you love & whom loves you & doesn't try to change you, loves God too & believes the same things you do, someone who will tell you they love you all the time, not just on anniversary or holiday or when they want something. Love is waiting til marriage. Love is respecting your wishes & decisions. Love is being able to be yourself instead of someone your not. I haven't met anyone like that yet but, you never know. The person God has for us could be somebody we absolutely couldn't stand 3 days ago or it could be someone you're best friends with and would never think about loving other than that until, you open your eyes. You never know. I sure as heck don't know. But, I do know that I'm exactly happy with the way my life is right now.:) I love God for everything He's gave me, still giving me, & for everything He allows me to do, for loving me, for providing a path for me, by giving me a family & wonderul teachers,coaches, & friends. I love God for giving me another family..my school.:) I love God for giving me the oppurtunity to play sports, join clubs, & etc. I love you God!! :) & I know that being patient is the right thing to do. & that I shouldn't search (which is mighty fine with me!). & I love following your plan for me!:)
Steph Alderson:)
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