Wondering How People could be so stupid.
When you're dating someone, that doesn't mean they're your world. God should always be your world not some dude or chick. I see my friends dating someone & then all heart broken when the idiot cheats on them, leaves them, or goes & has sex with another girl. Someone who loves you won't do that. Someone who loves you won't try to put there fn hands where they shouldn't be, especially when ya aint married. & that's another thing! Just bc your married, doesn't mean your wife or husband is some kind of toy that you can play with whenever you want. Why don't people get this? & yet the chick will stay w/ the dude even when she knows that he lost his vcard to one of her friends. That would majorly bother me. I wouldn't want to date someone who has already done that stuff. I don't want a chewed piece of gum & I don't see why other people do. Just bc yall are dating doesn't mean you have to agree with everything they say, you are your own person! Stop letting him or her make your decisions for you! & you don't have to spend all your time with them! I wouldn't want to atleast. Maybe, I'm weird. Idk, & Idc. I'm sticking with what I think & I think love should wait until you know what love is. Love isn't sex before you're married, love isn't people that try to keep you away from what you believe in, & those who try to seperate you from God. Love isn't him or her being the only thing you ever pay attention to. Love isn't letting them control you. Love isn't acting whom you supposivly love to send pics or do things of that nature. Love isn't sex. Love is having a lifetime partner. Someone whom you love & whom loves you & doesn't try to change you, loves God too & believes the same things you do, someone who will tell you they love you all the time, not just on anniversary or holiday or when they want something. Love is waiting til marriage. Love is respecting your wishes & decisions. Love is being able to be yourself instead of someone your not. I haven't met anyone like that yet but, you never know. The person God has for us could be somebody we absolutely couldn't stand 3 days ago or it could be someone you're best friends with and would never think about loving other than that until, you open your eyes. You never know. I sure as heck don't know. But, I do know that I'm exactly happy with the way my life is right now.:) I love God for everything He's gave me, still giving me, & for everything He allows me to do, for loving me, for providing a path for me, by giving me a family & wonderul teachers,coaches, & friends. I love God for giving me another family..my school.:) I love God for giving me the oppurtunity to play sports, join clubs, & etc. I love you God!! :) & I know that being patient is the right thing to do. & that I shouldn't search (which is mighty fine with me!). & I love following your plan for me!:)
Steph Alderson:)
Thursday, October 21, 2010
:):):) fantasticooo:D lol
Steph Alderson!! < the bomb diggity. Ohhz Yeahhz:D lol
& is totally eating chocolate icecream right now:)
I had a pretty good day..
Everyone seemed upset about something today though. There's all the Kurdt and Hannah Crap & then the Kaleb & Nicole crap & then the Josh & Hannah Crap & Gahhhh!! Just a lot of upset people for one day! I can't stand seeing people upset!:P Lol
Lol but, it's something they're gunna have to work on. I was a little upset about someone griping about my artwork but, someone reminded me w/ the exact words. "who cares" & then I realized that I didn't really care what they thought.:P Lol & then the rest of my day was absolutely fantastic. I worked on the positive attitude & I think I did decent. There was a few times when I was negative but, I caught myself.:)
& I love my new uniform..I hated it at first but, when I put it on I decided I loved it!:) Lol
I Love God for blessing me with another day..another wonderful day...here on Earth!!:)
& Thank you for reminding me what I believe just a few minutes ago when I could've made a huge mistake! You are amazing Lord!:)
Steph Alderson
& is totally eating chocolate icecream right now:)
I had a pretty good day..
Everyone seemed upset about something today though. There's all the Kurdt and Hannah Crap & then the Kaleb & Nicole crap & then the Josh & Hannah Crap & Gahhhh!! Just a lot of upset people for one day! I can't stand seeing people upset!:P Lol
Lol but, it's something they're gunna have to work on. I was a little upset about someone griping about my artwork but, someone reminded me w/ the exact words. "who cares" & then I realized that I didn't really care what they thought.:P Lol & then the rest of my day was absolutely fantastic. I worked on the positive attitude & I think I did decent. There was a few times when I was negative but, I caught myself.:)
& I love my new uniform..I hated it at first but, when I put it on I decided I loved it!:) Lol
I Love God for blessing me with another day..another wonderful day...here on Earth!!:)
& Thank you for reminding me what I believe just a few minutes ago when I could've made a huge mistake! You are amazing Lord!:)
Steph Alderson
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
All of my quotes:)
"Dry up those eyes,
Put a smile on your face,
Keep your held up high,
We gotta win this whole life race,
Keep your faith,
Don't bathe in sin,
When you don't do it right the first time,
Always try again..
Life will be rough at times,
You just gotta keep a smile and be strong,
Never forget who you are, Keep up the battle all day long.
Confidence, Pride, God's Love,
Live for God, the man above,
Be you at all times,
Never slow down,
You are you!
Spread the smile to everyone around!" - I was thinking too hard. :) Lol -Steph:)
"A strong person can keep a positive attitude when everyone, everything, every environment is negative. They still seem to find a light in the darkness. They can still smile when their whole world is frowning." - Steph Alderson:)
I admire Confidence, It determines everything. If your confident in yourself,confident in God, confident in others, confident in your team, you'll go far. Plus, who wants someone who gripes, complains, puts themselves and others down all the time? Confidence is the answer..Confidence is love.:) -Steph Alderson:)
"Shut doesn't go up bc of a thing I like to call gravity, my friend." - me:)
"You lie your "teeth out"...I am just wondering what are you going to do when you lose all of your "teeth" Lieing will always result in guilt,and will never have a good end result. So be honest, smile, & be you!" :) - Steph
"I know it's hard 2 be urself, when everybodys bein everybody else but ya gotta keep ur head up & smile, think less bout u & more about God 4 a while.:)" -Steph Alderson:D
"Our love for God should make us think before we make a decision...We should never choose anyone or anything over God. He did so much for us...How can we not do everything for Him?" --..me...i was in my thinking mode..:)
Always be you..no matter what people say or do..being you is what matters when we reach our final chapter....God will know who you are, how you handled everything..God will make that decision, not your peers...not your coworkers or classmates but, GOD!! He gave us life!! He gave us our family, friends, the air that we breathe! He gave us everything! Why can't we give Him our hearts, our souls, our minds..?? Why can't we live our lives for Him when He did create them??? God is my everything!:) I ♥ Him with all my heart & He loves me & YOU!!!!!! -Steph Alderson:)
I wanted to make sure I wouldn't lose them. Lol:P
Put a smile on your face,
Keep your held up high,
We gotta win this whole life race,
Keep your faith,
Don't bathe in sin,
When you don't do it right the first time,
Always try again..
Life will be rough at times,
You just gotta keep a smile and be strong,
Never forget who you are, Keep up the battle all day long.
Confidence, Pride, God's Love,
Live for God, the man above,
Be you at all times,
Never slow down,
You are you!
Spread the smile to everyone around!" - I was thinking too hard. :) Lol -Steph:)
"A strong person can keep a positive attitude when everyone, everything, every environment is negative. They still seem to find a light in the darkness. They can still smile when their whole world is frowning." - Steph Alderson:)
I admire Confidence, It determines everything. If your confident in yourself,confident in God, confident in others, confident in your team, you'll go far. Plus, who wants someone who gripes, complains, puts themselves and others down all the time? Confidence is the answer..Confidence is love.:) -Steph Alderson:)
"Shut doesn't go up bc of a thing I like to call gravity, my friend." - me:)
"You lie your "teeth out"...I am just wondering what are you going to do when you lose all of your "teeth" Lieing will always result in guilt,and will never have a good end result. So be honest, smile, & be you!" :) - Steph
"I know it's hard 2 be urself, when everybodys bein everybody else but ya gotta keep ur head up & smile, think less bout u & more about God 4 a while.:)" -Steph Alderson:D
"Our love for God should make us think before we make a decision...We should never choose anyone or anything over God. He did so much for us...How can we not do everything for Him?" --..me...i was in my thinking mode..:)
Always be you..no matter what people say or do..being you is what matters when we reach our final chapter....God will know who you are, how you handled everything..God will make that decision, not your peers...not your coworkers or classmates but, GOD!! He gave us life!! He gave us our family, friends, the air that we breathe! He gave us everything! Why can't we give Him our hearts, our souls, our minds..?? Why can't we live our lives for Him when He did create them??? God is my everything!:) I ♥ Him with all my heart & He loves me & YOU!!!!!! -Steph Alderson:)
I wanted to make sure I wouldn't lose them. Lol:P
Keep it POSITIVE!:)
Negative attitudes bug me. We all have our times when we're going to be negative about something but, it's when it's always a negative attitude that bugs me. People get so worked up, acting like the world is against them because some bad things happened to them. Bad things happen to everyone. A lot of times, I feel like the bad things that happen to me are God's punishment for me not obeying His plan..or for denying the truth. God is our Heavenly father & the phrase "this hurts me more than it hurts you"..which you've probably heard your father tell you when he was whoopin' you...Well, that phrase is exactly how God feels. He doesn't want to punish you but, how else are you going to learn? So normally after I realize what I did and realize that was a punishment for something I've done or thought or didn't do, I try my hardest not to do it again which is exactly what we should do. When your parents whoop you for not taking out the trash, aren't you going to try to remember to take out the trash next time? If ya had any sense at all, ya would! Well, when something bad happens to you, don't get an all negative, screw the world kinda attitude. Realize that it all happens for a reason..& keep a smile on your face & strive to make it better and/or try your hardest not to make the mistake again. I don't think I'm really explaining this like my head is telling me to but, yeah. I'm talking more on the line of every day things like falling, hurting yourself, forgetting something ,etc. Not rape, murder, deaths..You know...However, I don't think you should get an all negative, screw the world attitude about that either. I mean I don't expect to see a gigantic smile on your face but, keep thinking positive & talk to God about it. God is amazing!:) & without letting Him into my life, I woulda lost a lot a long time ago, that means a lot to me now. I love you Lord:)
Tips-
1..All thoughts, whether they are positive or negative, tend to attract more of the same. So by focusing on happy thoughts and expectations, you'll increase your tendency to develop and keep a positive attitude. :)
2..Dissing yourself, telling yourself you can't do this or you're not worth it and etc. is not a positive attitude. Don't get big headed but, don't put yourself down! God gave you life! He doesn't want you wasting that life by putting yourself when you good be putting yourself up and helping improve other peoples attitudes, as well! :)
3..Focus more on what you can figure out a solution instead of focusing on what the problem is! You aint gunna get anywhere by feeling sorry for yourself! :)
4..Practice thinking,saying,writing,singing, positive things! They'll help you build a positive attitude and put a positive light towards everything you do. :) :)
5..Note that the environment you put yourself around will do something to your attitude. Hopefully it's positive but, hanging around negative people all the time will make your attitude more negative if you're not careful. Negative movies,books,etc... Keep a positive environment & attitude!:)
We all have our ups and downs, we just have to realize how we can keep strong, stay positive, & we have to talk to God. God is the only one that knows everything about you. He knows your secrets, you'd never tell. He knows when you lie & He knows when you're thinking negativly or positivly. This post has helped me a lot because normally when I read something it helps me. I know I typed it but, now I understand it & will be trying to improve my attitude a lot because it needs it!:)
I love you God!!!!:D
Steph Alderson
The Bomb Diggity:)
Tips-
1..All thoughts, whether they are positive or negative, tend to attract more of the same. So by focusing on happy thoughts and expectations, you'll increase your tendency to develop and keep a positive attitude. :)
2..Dissing yourself, telling yourself you can't do this or you're not worth it and etc. is not a positive attitude. Don't get big headed but, don't put yourself down! God gave you life! He doesn't want you wasting that life by putting yourself when you good be putting yourself up and helping improve other peoples attitudes, as well! :)
3..Focus more on what you can figure out a solution instead of focusing on what the problem is! You aint gunna get anywhere by feeling sorry for yourself! :)
4..Practice thinking,saying,writing,singing, positive things! They'll help you build a positive attitude and put a positive light towards everything you do. :) :)
5..Note that the environment you put yourself around will do something to your attitude. Hopefully it's positive but, hanging around negative people all the time will make your attitude more negative if you're not careful. Negative movies,books,etc... Keep a positive environment & attitude!:)
We all have our ups and downs, we just have to realize how we can keep strong, stay positive, & we have to talk to God. God is the only one that knows everything about you. He knows your secrets, you'd never tell. He knows when you lie & He knows when you're thinking negativly or positivly. This post has helped me a lot because normally when I read something it helps me. I know I typed it but, now I understand it & will be trying to improve my attitude a lot because it needs it!:)
I love you God!!!!:D
Steph Alderson
The Bomb Diggity:)
Wednesday, October 20th...10 days til muh bday:) lol
My day has been absolutely great.:D
I was exhausted for most part of the day and probably a tad bit grouchy but, I still had fun & got to live another day for the Lord:) Whom, I love soooo much:D Lol
& I got a little irritated because I've realized that the way people act with "drama" is the same way they act with movies. They only seem to remember the good parts with the most "drama" & then they tell all there friends about it. That's exactly how people are with gossip & crap, which irritates me. Just because you hear something, does not mean it's true! When I find out something, I don't tell the world. It isn't that hard. Gahhhhspp:D Gasp! Lol:P but, my day was still good. Lol Anyways, I learned a lot today about school stuff & God:) & I'm ready for tomorrow...
& thinks Lunchable's are very cute..especially the ones with Pudding.:D Lol & I don't mean like that.:)
Steph Alderson
I was exhausted for most part of the day and probably a tad bit grouchy but, I still had fun & got to live another day for the Lord:) Whom, I love soooo much:D Lol
& I got a little irritated because I've realized that the way people act with "drama" is the same way they act with movies. They only seem to remember the good parts with the most "drama" & then they tell all there friends about it. That's exactly how people are with gossip & crap, which irritates me. Just because you hear something, does not mean it's true! When I find out something, I don't tell the world. It isn't that hard. Gahhhhspp:D Gasp! Lol:P but, my day was still good. Lol Anyways, I learned a lot today about school stuff & God:) & I'm ready for tomorrow...
& thinks Lunchable's are very cute..especially the ones with Pudding.:D Lol & I don't mean like that.:)
Steph Alderson
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Pottsville XC Meet 2010
Has had a wonderful day:)
Everything has been somewhat easy and layed back. lol The teachers must've known I was exhausted or something.:P Lol & I had a race today & got 19th outta of I have no idea! lol My time was 26:49. & That race was straight out flat, only like 1 hill!:P Lol Fun stuff.
& I hope the SR. teams did good tonight at the bball games!!:) Go OHS!
Steph Alderson is exhaustedly logging off.:)
GOD IS GREAT!:)
Everything has been somewhat easy and layed back. lol The teachers must've known I was exhausted or something.:P Lol & I had a race today & got 19th outta of I have no idea! lol My time was 26:49. & That race was straight out flat, only like 1 hill!:P Lol Fun stuff.
& I hope the SR. teams did good tonight at the bball games!!:) Go OHS!
Steph Alderson is exhaustedly logging off.:)
GOD IS GREAT!:)
Monday, October 18, 2010
Hey Now..Get your Game On...Lets..Go...????Play????
Had a mostly wonderful day:)
My school day was pretty decent..some actor dude, hal evans came & worked w/ us on acting stuff, I suppose. Lol & every class was fun.:P
buttttt.....the game didn't go so wonderful..It was like 50-16. I think. We could of and should of done a LOT better..we were capable but, I know I felt ridiculous out there, no idea how the others felt but, I think we'll do better in our other games. I'm hoping this is just 1st game jitters. Dear Lord, please let that be it.:) Lol That is all I really want to say about that because it angers me how pathetic I played. :P
Well, I just recently found out I have a cross-country meet tomorrow, thrills..after arguing w/ my father and mother, I finally convinced them to let me stay for basketball practice and then leave right after.:) I love my persuasive side. Lol:P
I'm like reallllyyyyy hungry so I'ma get offa here...
Steph Alderson:D
My school day was pretty decent..some actor dude, hal evans came & worked w/ us on acting stuff, I suppose. Lol & every class was fun.:P
buttttt.....the game didn't go so wonderful..It was like 50-16. I think. We could of and should of done a LOT better..we were capable but, I know I felt ridiculous out there, no idea how the others felt but, I think we'll do better in our other games. I'm hoping this is just 1st game jitters. Dear Lord, please let that be it.:) Lol That is all I really want to say about that because it angers me how pathetic I played. :P
Well, I just recently found out I have a cross-country meet tomorrow, thrills..after arguing w/ my father and mother, I finally convinced them to let me stay for basketball practice and then leave right after.:) I love my persuasive side. Lol:P
I'm like reallllyyyyy hungry so I'ma get offa here...
Steph Alderson:D
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